There’s this saying that we all know, that “kids are resilient” but I disagree. We’re born requiring so much love and support. If we get something else we start to equate that new thing with love instead. I think humans are actually pretty delicate, like soft sponges, and until we learn to stop tossing each other around as if we’re going to bounce back without wounds we’re going to continue to pass down all the hurt that came from the people before us. Casual is about my own experience with pain that was passed down to me, and how it was limiting my capacity for joy and goodness until I started sorting it out.